It can be a difficult, awkward, and uncomfortable conversation when it comes to asking your sugar daddy for some ‘sugar.’ However, you have most likely entered this lifestyle to gain the benefits of a more illustrious lifestyle with money and gifts already agreed upon. Therefore, we’ve put together a guide on how to ask your sugar daddy for money.
Before starting your arrangement
This can be the most crucial time to ensuring you know what you’re signing up for. If you’re not sure what they can offer, ask them about their previous arrangements and what they consisted of, this will give you an idea of how much time is involved and what they are willing to compensate.
This is no time to be shy. Tell them about your ideal arrangement and how much you are expecting, and this will set the foundation of your arrangement to ensure you are comfortable moving forward.
Explain what you’re using the money for
A sugar daddy will be more inclined to stay on top of their payments and spoil you when they know their money is genuinely helping you achieve something. Try to steer clear from the sob stories – remember: this should be a drama-free zone and explain how this is helping you as a student, or paying off a loan or saving up for a bigger expense like a car. Make it clear how much they are helping you and how much you appreciate it. Stay on top of it and make sure you thank them if they ever provide extra and treat you to an extra special dinner.
Go back to your original arrangement
If you’re more along in your relationship you need to make sure you’re putting in the work! Mentally and physically make sure you’re being the sugar baby your sugar daddy has signed up for. Be open and honest with them and know whether you are meeting his expectations and take his feedback on board.
If you believe your sugar daddy is no longer fulfilling your original agreement, it’s time to be direct with them about your expectations. Make it clear you have goals, bills, and commitments in your personal life that you are working towards. You have to be confident knowing you deserve payment for the services you are providing.
Have the gifts stopped?
Suppose you were getting spoilt with gifts that seem to have stopped. Try to figure out why that may be; you could ask them directly or indirectly. For example, your sugar daddy may have been getting too comfortable and felt like their gifts were no longer needed or appreciated. Older people love being charitable when they know their money is going towards something you’re going to really cherish.
Dropping hints like, “this dress would look perfect on me,” “I’d really like these new shoes to wear to this event,” or even – “my toaster broke, and I really need a new one!” whatever it is you’re fishing for, explain why this item would bring you joy and be useful in your life. If it doesn’t work, explain that gifts appeared to be part of the initial arrangement and how you really appreciated receiving them.
Should you ask your sugar daddy for money?
Know whether it’s appropriate to be asking your sugar daddy for money. If you have already signed up for an apparent arrangement and provide that, you must respect their terms. However, if you believe your original arrangement has changed, it may be time to re-negotiate. Please explain how you are spending more time with them than originally agreed upon or how your situation has changed, and you now require more payment. It may be as simple as asking for a little extra per visit or week and if so, show your appreciation; they want to know how much they are spoiling you.