my secret babe

So you’re interested in getting a sugar daddy, but where do you start? A successful sugar baby knows her limits, worth and is able to enjoy the work she does. 

A successful sugar has a clear understanding of her arrangements

Before starting out, it’s important you consider what arrangement works best for you and your lifestyle. 

Men understand you are not a free service and they know what they are signing up for. You’re not tricking anyone, you’re getting paid by men who want to spoil you. 

The terms you set up for your relationship are important to talk about before committing to anything. Clearly outline what you’re after, where and when you’re able to meet with him, and how long you can spend with them. 

Your sugar daddy will also have an idea of what they are looking for. If you don’t think you can commit the time or ask something that makes you feel uncomfortable, the arrangement might not be for you. Figure out what you want from them and what they want from you before moving forward with meeting in person. 

Be smart with your money

Becoming a successful sugar baby is mostly about earning and saving the maximum amount of money or gifts. Before committing to anything, meet them in a public place, tell a friend where you’re going and when you’ll be home, and see what the connection is like. See if this is someone you would like to continue speaking with, spending time with, and potentially being intimate.

It’s great to have an overall goal in mind, like paying off a loan, a career ambition or an extra weekly payment to help support you.

When you have a sugar daddy that spoils you, it can be tempting to consider quitting your job and relying solely on your sugar baby income. Remember, it may not always be a steady income, and your relationship can end at any time.

Know your limits and boundaries

Sex isn’t always what a sugar daddy is looking for, but it is very common. Know what you’re willing to do before signing up for sites and talking to men. You’re not obligated to sleep with anyone but you should express this before you pursue your relationship.

While some men want a sugar baby who is going to dress up for them and laugh at all their jokes, you don’t have to be someone you’re not make it clear if this is not something you’re interested in. 

Personality goes a long way, so if tiny outfits and fake lashes aren’t for you, you’re not going to be happy or your authentic self when you’re together. 

Watch out for frauds and scams

As you would know, the online space is full of scams and frauds. If it sounds too good to be true, it likely is. Typical scams involve offering large sums of payment before meeting or asking for bank details in their first messages. This is a big red flag. Use cash-transfer sites you know are secure, and avoid sending out your banking information before a clear arrangement has been established. 

Another one to look out for is men actually not looking for a sugar baby; you can spot these by reading their profiles or when men say for long-term romantic relationships. 

Keep it fun and respectful

Like any relationship, the way you treat your sugar daddy will help with the success and longevity of the arrangement. Being with you shouldn’t have to be work for your sugar daddy; they want an easy-going relationship. Try not to use your sugar daddy as a shoulder to cry on, but be there to support them. Be respectful of their time and don’t cancel or push dates back. Be thankful for the experience and express your gratitude as he helps you financially.

Other than the benefit of receiving cash, use this time to try new experiences, make a new friend and learn from them. You’ll find the relationship more rewarding if you’re able to connect and enjoy your time with them.

Tools for becoming a successful sugar baby

I admit this may seem a bit strange, however, we live in the age of technology where there is a website for almost everything. There are quite a lot websites for dating and for finding sugar daddies. Like everything else some of these websites work and some of them do not.

Join a website that has genuine members that have gone through a vetting and verification process. This way you are safe and you are unlikely to be scammed. We suggest My Secret Babe, as we have strict rules and checks in place to make sure you will succeed in your sugar dating experience.