Starting a relationship with a sugar daddy can exciting! If you’re new to the scene, you may be thrilled to have a potential sugar daddy, but don’t discount yourself, and you’ve got goals to stick to! First, you must introduce yourself and your expectations the right way. Here’s what to say when a sugar daddy asks what you’re looking for.
Look at their profile.
If you’ve got the request from an online site, do a little bit of research before you respond so you can make sure you’re ticking the right boxes. For example, if you know they’re looking for someone to spend weekends with, explain how this works great for you. Or, if they’re looking for something discreet, explain how you respect their privacy and only hope to provide a mutually agreed upon service. A glance at their profile will determine whether you are compatible or if it’s not quite something you can commit to.
Be as honest as you can
Without beating around the bush, of course, you’re looking for payment of some kind. But it’s important not to appear too materialistic, so they don’t see you as a money-hungry gold digger. To make the most out of the sugar daddy arrangement, explain how valuable time is for you to build a meaningful connection.
You’re interested in becoming a sugar baby becomes it opens doors to a lifestyle you may not be able to afford on your own. You’re interested in life experience and forming connections with someone older, wiser, and with more life experience than yourself. You want to learn from them and hear about their life.
Explain your ideal arrangement and what you are willing to offer. If you’re not comfortable with having sex, tell them that there are no uncomfortable surprises later on. Tell them how much time you can spend with them and what you can bring to the relationship.
This is time for you to form a connection with someone you may not have had the opportunity to do so under different conditions so tell them how you genuinely hope to form a fulfilling and rewarding relationship for both of you.
Tell them about what you can offer
Use this time to explain how you’d be the perfect match for them. Whether you’re really flexible with your time, want to help them distress and unwind, have weekends free, or you’ve got great confidence and experience in this kind of relationship. Be confident and tell them what makes you so special to be with and how you know exactly how to fulfill their needs. Please explain why this arrangement is equally as rewarding for you as it is for them.
Tell them about your goals.
Sugar daddies will be more motivated if they know you are working towards something bigger, and they are helping you get there. So be open about the loan you’re paying off or how you’re saving to move to a new apartment. Explain the financial compensation you are expecting and how much it will help you.
Tell them about your desires
If you’re not particularly working towards anything and just looking for extra money or gifts, you can explain that too. Tell them how you really appreciate the experiences you can get from this lifestyle and how you are interested in providing a fulfilling role as a sugar baby to them and providing you with more experience and a lucrative lifestyle you may not have had access to before.
Tell them about your previous arrangements
If you’re more seasoned in the sugar baby/sugar daddy scene, this can be a great baseline for them to understand what you can bring to the role and how much they are expected to be compensating. Tell them how much time you can commit to the arrangement and what you have been gifted with in the past.
Know your worth
If your arrangement doesn’t appear to be on the same page as your potential sugar daddy, there’s nothing wrong with laying down exactly what you expect your arrangement to entail. However, if you believe they have negotiated too low or you don’t feel comfortable in what they are asking, you must let your hesitations be known before proceeding to anything else.